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Bills and in debt !

vze2spr9 started this conversation

I'm in debt and behind in my bills. I also need to move to an apartment of my own!

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mamashe/sheshe
 in response to toolittletolate...   

Reply to toolittletolate:---I don't know the whole story behind your post to vze2spr9 but it doesn't take a PHD to figure it out. I just wanted to commend you on what you said and how you said it. Your words came from within your soul and from the love you have for this person. I hope she reads your words, you are a very wise and caring person. sincerely sheshe030

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toolittletolate
 in response to mscarieann...   You had been rich?,..... your boyfriend had some money, and you all managed to blow most of it. When you blew that relationship, you couldn't keep a job and then started the depressing endless complaining how no one would help you. You gave away your kids, to people that were not even your family and had your 4th child taken from you by DHS.  Your real family tried helping you and you just kept taking, lying, and abusing everyone.   This is where drugs got you, when you won't even try to work on your addictions and let your precious kids slip through your fingers, whose to blame. Your ending up like this is very sad, and I find it still breaks my heart,  but you never would listen, and I hope that someday you see that all this could have been prevented, if you stayed away from the drugs, partying and became responsible for your actions!
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smp261
Hello, I am a 48 year old disabled female who cannot pay all of the bills. My only means of income was child support for my 17 year old daughter, but on Dec. 14, 2008, she decided to move back in with her father because of the school she wanted to attend.  Now I have no income and nowhere to go.  I am currently going threw a divorce for 4 1/2 years now and receive no spousal support.  I do  currently receive food stamps and medical but no cash assistance.  I have applied for my SSI, but they told me that it would be anywhere from 9 to 13 months before I even had a hearing.  I have a heart condition and a bad back.  I am unable to work and I have no vehicle as my oldest daughter blew the engine and left.  She no longer talks to me because I asked her to pay for my car.  My family is deceased and I have no where to turn.  I am a christian and I'm now leaving it in God's hands. If someone could just help me out with $8000.00, I could pay them back with interest as soon as my SSI is approved.  I will sign any contract or loan paper that I have too, but PLEASE, someone hear my plight.  I am desperate and alone.  I would appreciate any help that I could get. Please don't misunderstand me, I am not looking for anything free, I just need a loan.  Thank you and God Bless.  My e-mail is smp261@yahoo.com 
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b_sanjeewa
I’m 33 Yrs, married, Male from Sri Lanka. I have only one daughter, 3 Yrs. My wife is a housemaid. I had to undergo a heart surgery about 10 years ago before marriage. I have one younger brother, 29 yrs, unmarried, unemployed. My mother is 61 Yrs, unemployed. After my father’s sudden death 3 years ago, we are facing very difficulties as we were looking after by my beloved father. My mother & brother living with small income receive from their small boutique. They are running it with so many difficulties like loans & over drafts. I therefore have to look after them also. I’m the only employee in the family but it’s not enough because I’m getting small salary. I have also so many personnel loans and have used credit card also for necessities. Therefore I have to pay large amount of money monthly to pay loan installments & credit card payments. I have used nearly Sri Lanka Rs. 200,000/= with my credit card & I am paying nearly Rs. 8,000/= per month for credit card minimum payment. Now I’m ignoring some debit payments due my sever financial crisis.  So I’m facing with so many difficulties in my life. I’ll have to send my little cute daughter to a nursery school for her education by beginning of next year. I’ll have to spend some money to enter her a nursery school. It’s very necessary to educate her to help our world. But how can I face to the future with these problems……….. If u can help me it’s greatly appreciated. Don’t misunderstand me. Thank you. My e-mail : bsm_1975@yahoo.com
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GRAYDENE

IM A 32 YEAR OLD LADY WHO REALLY NEED SOMEBODY TO LEND ME A R45OOO.OO TO CONSOLIDATED MY DEBTS,I REALLY WANT TO START CLEAN PAGE,AND IM WILLING TO PAY A R55 000,00 TO THE PERSON WILL HELP ME,I WILL PAY AT R1500,OO PM OVER 4 YEARS ,PLEASE HELP ME,SEE MY CRY I WILLING TO SIGN A BINDING CONTRACT TO THE PERSON IS WILLING TO HELP NE,........HELP ME......URGENT....

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PatriciaC3
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PatriciaC3

Hello! My name is Patricia and I am looking for work! I have been disabled for the past 2 years but am now able to return to work with minor physical limitations. I'm registered with 3 temp agencies currently but would love a permanent admin position in the medical field. I have 3 boys, my oldest is 20, has graduated from Job Core and is currently applying for financial aid in order to finish vocational training school to become a doctor. My 2nd son(19)is planing to begin training to become a FireFighter, he needs $3000 for his schooling but is pending financial aid for that. My youngest son (18) is working and will begin Pharmacy tech school in September. Due to a recent family tragedy we are raising 3 additional kids (ages 16,17,18) until they graduate and find permanent living arrangements. Currently My husbands job as a painter is the only source of income at the moment. He is working day and some nights just to feed us and afford my prior medical bills of approx. $20,000. If we had about $4500.00 right now It would be such a boost and load off until I could began working. Then I could afford to make payment arrangements to clean my credit. If there is a job available for me I would love to work in the Salinas California area. I do not want to be on disability because I know I can work, I just need the opportunity to prove myself workable again. I hav'nt worked since July of 2005 after 4 surgeries and treatments. I am now on the road to recovery and love working with people. I have approx. 8 years experience in medical billing, reception and medical records experience. I have 20 years office admin experience. Please email me at mapatbabygirl@yahoo.com if you can help! God Bless!

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katie25

Please help, I just got divorced, my dad disowned me, since then I have been in a job paid everything out to my ex husband and have been moving in and out of places. I have not found a stable home since 2002. I was in and out of a hospital with an eating disorder and now found the church and my small group which has kept me stable. I now was living with a group of people. There was a person in the house that is very mentally abusive to two of us. We are both Christians and believe that God will keep us safe. As of now we have no where to go. My dear friend whom I want to stay with has a house that has gone into forclosure because of many reasons that are because of this person that will do anythign to ruin us, between cheating, and stealing. She needs to pay back the bank in the next 6 weeks and get her salon back on track or she will loose everything. We need a loan (attached to property) and will repay with in a year with what ever interst is set for us. Please let us know if you have any ideas or if anyone could help. As we keep saying to eachother it is in Gods hands.and that is all we can do.I just know that I can not live in this abusive alcholic life that is around us. Please help in anyway, we are looking for a private investor or anything that will cover us for a year for 80k Please let me know if you can help kobrienre@aol.com
Help with any thing please!!!

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brokenspirit1

I have bills that are in my ex boyfriend's name whom i promised to keep on top of the electric bill. See my mother ran up an outstanding bill of 2500 or something like that in my name pretending to be me and use my social i've tried to explain this to them my mother did do this but because she is on probation she won't talk to anybody and tell them the scoop. Is there a way i can get this bill out of my name so i don't have to pay it. I am unenemployed now because of my health and my bills are behind now.I could care less about myself if I was alone i'd sleep at a motel but I want my children to live in a stable home and feel safe and nurtured.Right now I am not looking for a man to depend on because all that has done is caused grief and it's always thrown in my face. I am trying to raise my children as a single mother.Family does nothing at all for me they are the ones who have always screwed me over and I have never done that to anyone Ever.

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brokenspirit1

I am in the same boat. I know someone in this world has to have the means to help those like us and understand government help only goes so far in in some cases you just cannot recieve certain aid that most can. I will pray for you as well.I would be the type if I had the means to help those with our situations I know what it is like to have nobody.

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mjwe

As like everyone else posting messages i also need assistance with rent and utilities. I am a 51 year old single parent of a 14 year old daughter and 16 year old son. I do work but it is only part time hours. my car is 16 years old which is close to its end, so i can't go to far for work. It has been a struggle for the past 5 years and I am to the point of giving up. I have tried every govermnent office for assistance and they say my 6.00 $ an hour i make is to much for help, I receive food stamps but it barely covers 2 weeks of groceries with teenagers... Please help dove_1956@yahoo.com

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Leah1

Trying to find a way to pay for college. I work a lot but it goes towards bills... My student loans are piling up! I know this probably sounds silly and selfish, but if every person that reads this sent me $1.00 It could pay for my college education... It's better than the $5.00 that most people give homeless people and goes straight to drugs or alcohol. If I get through my schooling maybe someday I will have the money to come back on here and help those who need it... Most likely though the only people reading this are also in desperate need for money and in desperate need to make something of themselves... well thanks! If you can help or would send me even a dollar- e-mail me so at: Tropicafruit@yahoo.com thanks, -Leah

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I ONCE WAS LOST BUT NOW IM FD

HI MY NAME IS JERRELL i am a 29 year male who is really in need of some help i've search high and low for some help i have three kids,they dont live with me but im more concerned with there well being than my own,and trying to help there mothers out,and i really feel diqused with myself as a man that i cant do that,im between jobs right now and its been really hard to get back on my feet ive been serching the net to see if i can start a home based buisness,so i can spend more time with my kids but i dont have credit cards or a checking accout im really just trying to get back on my feet so if any one can help i would be more than thankful. god bless you

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winpooh

To Sean1234:This sounds to good to be true!! Whats the catch? winpooh_14739@yahoo.com

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garcialife

On June 25 2007 my daughters 14th birthday our electricity was turned off i was in debt and trying to get help they said we could not do payment plans until the end of the year. I have to other children a 9 year old and an 11 year old who is a DIABETIC we are still living with out electricity until we can come up with at least $2800 we owe the xcel energy $5200 if you can help it would be greatly appreciated and may GOD bless you

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troubledmom

I awoke on April 13, 2007 to a phone call from my former boss telling me that I no longer had a job because she decided to shut down the store. No notice, just the phone call from her on the 13th. I am drawing unemployment in the amount of $120.00 weekly. This barely covers the bills and what food I can afford to buy. I received a letter from my electric company yesterday telling me that I had until next Wednesday to pay a $700.00 bill. Can anyone lead me to some help real quick ? I have no family to borrow the money from, and I am desperate. I just know that I am going to be without power. Thank you for any and all help that you can offer.

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Shirley2

My name is Shirley. I am in the process of a divorce and boy has it been crazy. My ex has a good job making lots of money but he will not share. We were married for 20 years. i now live in a very small apartment and have no income at this time. I was recently laid off from my extremely low paying job. I cannot afford a lawyer at this time because they all want front money and tell me that they will "try" to get the judge to make him pay it as part of our settlement. A settlement may not come for years and right now i am down to a jar of peanut butter and a half loaf of bread. The rent will be due in about two weeks and I am sure the landlord will not be very pleased. if anyone can halp it would be greatly appreciated.

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mscarieann

mscarieann@hotmail.com I am a single parent who needs help with my bills I am to a point where I want to give up I have 3 children and I went from riches with my ex to rags one by one my ulitilies are being cut off and by the 30th I have to also move. I cry daily and fallin more and more with the passing days if u can help I am in okc 1515nw 33rd 73118 u can contact the water and electric and help maybe relocate so I am able to have a fresh start myself and 3 kids will be so thankful!!!!

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Anabear2421

Please someone help! I have a small child, 10 months, both my husband and I are working and trying to catch up to the bills and we just can't. We took out a pesonal loan through the bank for the costs of having a baby and getting ready and now it's maxed out, all of our credit cards are maxed out and it's taking everything we have to try and keep up and we're still not making it. If anyone knows of anyway to help please email me and let me know. I appreciate it. Thank you. My email address is anabear2421@yahoo.com. Thanks again. Anna

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